Changing the World….
One Great Love Story at a Time
Hello Beauty, I know this has been a long time coming….
You have done all the good and right things to create a fulfilling life that you feel proud of and enjoy. Your career and soul purpose is happening (or maybe already in full bloom!), you have gorgeous friends and a life filled with fun, faith and adventure.
But….we both know there is not enough sugar in the world to sweeten the deep-down ache of living a life without the MAGIC of romantic love.
You can’t help but feel that there is a certain something missing that would bring a depth of fulfillment and JOY to your big beautiful heart:
HIM.
Oh WE KNOW….you certainly do not NEED a man.
(Especially now that you are creating the money and have the career, the friends and even the freedom to do as you desire.)
But this stubborn heart of yours…won’t stop….longing.
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Longing to be MET in allllll your succulence, tenderness and LOVE.
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Longing to melt all the heavy bondage of armor of the “independent woman” in the (THANK YOU, GOD) strong arms of an attuned, smart, funny, tender, unapologetically MASCULINE MAN who just so happens…. to be able to read Miss ‘What If I Am Too Much’ You like a BOOK.
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Longing to feel the deep exhale of knowing you can lay your head on the pillow next to his….and finally be HOME.
Some of you may already understand the (edgy!) truth that HE is the key to unlocking your deepest most luscious Feminine bliss. The whole “Independent Woman” rite of passage certainly had its place, but you, Sweetness…. are ready to slink into a DEEP, LASTING, EROS-DRENCHED LOVE.
Maybe you don’t yet know …..but your (secret) RELENTLESS DESIRE for HIM is the very first page of your Love Story together.
But why then are there so many fabulous women like YOU who DESIRE to be in a relationship with a Great Man stuck in these cycles of disappointing and frustrating experiences with men, over and over again.
It stings my heart to say this….but here is what I see every day:
You are either stuck in the scarcity trap of “But where are all the “REAL MEN?” because
“Gilllllian, you do not understand, I have been on 11 dates in a row and they were all DUDS.”
OR…..
You are one of the seemingly luckier ones who actually know how to magnetize good men….but….no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to keep them interested in pursuing you…let alone claim you.
You have pulled up your courageous big girl panties time and time again and have been so patient…..but the merry-go-round of HOPE and DISAPPOINTMENT in your dating life is draining and you are… tired.
Just the idea of ‘getting back on the apps’ or going back to square one feels unbearable…so you try even harder. Mortifingly, find yourself paying for your half of special dinners or even ‘romantic get-aways’ together, secretly shrinking in your power and your personality….anything to avoid returning to the tortuous churn and burn of dating again…
Somehow…even thee sex and all the ways you pour your Magic Healing Love into this man seem to feel a bit dusty and he begins to grow distant. His texts and his attention become more metallic feeling and become less frequent. He stops bringing you flowers and little gifts. It's not long now before he will fade away, leaving you feeling understandably confused and heartbroken.
Yet another dysfunctional Chutes and Ladders game of going from being seemingly adored to ghosted…. in a matter of weeks….again.
Where did things go wrong?
Why are there so many gorgeous, “conscious” women like YOU who are doing ‘all the things’ yet seemingly unable to “call in” a Great Man?
I am going to give it to you straight up ~ no chaser.
There are TWO REASONS:
1. YOU HAVE NOT BEEN TAUGHT HOW TO DATE AS A FEMININE WOMAN.
You are dating in ways that are OUT OF ALIGNMENT WITH YOUR BIOLOGICAL and SPIRITUAL NATURE AS a FEMININE WOMAN, causing you heartbreak, frustration, weariness, and feeling like there is something wrong with YOU.
2. YOU DO NOT TRULY UNDERSTAND and RESPECT THESE STRANGE, BAFFLING, HAIRY CREATURES CALLED M-M–M-MEN.
You are dating and attempting to create relationships with men sourced in some UNconscious destructive places of control, disrespect, and ‘blind spots’. This is causing you to make a series of fixable (I promise!) but critical mistakes over and over again that push you to overgive, s/mother him, caretake, and be far too generous with your SEX and your MONEY.
This is not your fault, Loves.
But it is your RESPONSIBILITY to change.
The GOOD NEWS is that dating and learning how to be courted by Masculine Men who DESIRE MARRIAGE and devotional partnership are TEACHABLE SKILLS that you can LEARN.
The MAYBE-NOT-SO-GOOD NEWS is that many of the “conscious dating” and / or “polarity” programs – let alone the dating apps! – have likely led you down the wrong road when it comes to the unique (and sadly, increasingly rare) experience of dating as a FEMININE WOMAN.
I am a teacher and guide for (thousands of) women and here is what I see every day:
Women are experiencing the painful consequences of cookie-cutter, scripted approaches to modern dating and courtship that tragically leave you and your FEMININE MAGIC all tangled up in a straight-jacket.
No, babe. You getting smaller and less potent is not the way.
Or…you are out there crashing around on dating bumper cars because you are following the same path that helped you create business and career success. But these moves and this mindset is NOT going to work when it comes to dating and relating with MASCULINE MEN. Incoming tough love but it is naive to think that being brilliant at biz = knowing how to be found and adored by GREAT Masculine Men. THESE ARE TWO VERY DIFFERENT EXPRESSIONS.
This is why I have created….
THE ARENA
A DATING + COURTSHIP REVIVAL FOR FEMININE WOMEN
created by Gillian Pothier
⚡💛⚡THE ARENA is a multidimensional, mystical yet practical dating + courtship journey where you will be guided, supported and (lovingly) worked as you step forward into the world of MEN.
Here is what you will learn in The Arena
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How to identify a SOLID Masculine man who WANTS and is READY for a long-term, happy, stable relationship and marriage. This alone will spare you heaps of emotional agony & wasted time!
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How to NOT become entertainment for bored men who have no actual interest in pursuing you.
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How to emanate a precise yet succulently magnetic Feminine Frequency (aka: your ‘bat signal’) to the RIGHT type of man so that your milkshake DOESN’T bring all the BOYS to your yard! (TRUST ME….you realllllllly do not want all the boys in your yard!)
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How to keep your sweet little BRILLIANT BRAIN from spinning in exhausting loops of “does he…does he not…” and learn how to FLIP THE ENERGETIC SCRIPT so that he is the one whose mind is occupied with thinking about YOU.
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The THREE LITTLE WORDS no woman who is ready for love should ever say! (And noooo, not those 3 little words! ;) )
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No more premature bonding to the wrong man (and how to inspire a man to create the CORRECT CONDITIONS for your opening and radiance!)
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How to not ‘accidentally’ collapse into Wifey *before you get what you want and desire* first.
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Understand, appreciate, respect and ADORE biologic and primal MALENESS
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(Because please tell me….how are you supposed to have a gorgeous, sexy, healthy relationship with a MAN if you don’t organically appreciate + ENJOY Maleness?)
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SEX. This is THE #1 hot tamale question we receive. You are going to hear our professional and personal tea from the frontlines on how we suggest you navigate the rocky erotic currents of courtship in 2025.
Learn how to avoid the time-sucking and heart-hurting pitfalls of Dating in 2025….and FEEL GOOD WHILE DOING SO.
The truth is….we all know modern dating kinda sucks.
Most women – especialllllly Feminine women – dread the very idea of it.
But I pinky-swear that dating and opening to being courted does not have to be so horrible and frustrating.
We have created THE ARENA to be a joyful, playful, heart-healing journey that also supports and teaches you with REAL LIFE IMPERFECT MEN 👀 how to become more skillful, more embodied, more magnetic….and more fully expressed in the truth of your own desire and ESSENCE as WOMAN. 💎
But here is the thing!
Finding Love (and being FOUND in Love) IS a bit of a wild and sometimes deeply vulnerable and lonely journey. Whether meeting men online or in ‘the wild’ (and we are going to guide you through both!) it is crucial that you know what you are doing when it comes to dating and meeting men in 2025.
I will say the uncomfortable thing:
If you desire to love and be loved by a Great Man, you must BECOME a Great Woman.
This is ON YOU, Beauty.
And there is no better place to learn (and unlearn!) the path to GREAT LOVE than in THE ARENA.
What Makes THE ARENA different from all the other ‘dating programs’ out there?
THE ARENA is a bit like the Hogwart’s School of Dating and Relating.
Here is our secret Love Potion:
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A splash or 2 of Deep Feminine Mystery School (Hello Feminine Magnetism, Muse Codes and Allure! )
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A drizzle of CHARM SCHOOL (The mirepoix of Feminine mystique…)
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And well…several hefty scoops of FEMININE REFORM SCHOOL (because ahem, Ladies….not by a longshot are men are not the only problem when it comes to the reality of dating and finding love!)
Here are ‘the codes’ woven through the 3-month journey of THE ARENA:
1. Playful and Luscious Honeypot Enchantment meets DEEP Feminine Spiritual Responsibility.
This is THE alchemical combo that inspires men to WANT deep, erotic, lifelong LOVE SACRED UNION with an awakening, potent and yet soft and supple Feminine Woman….like YOU.
2. Coming into Right Relationship with Men, Maleness and the Masculine.
I am going to tell you a secret. I have spent the last 4-months going ‘undercover’ into the world of dating and relationship coaching. I could not find ONE COURSE that successfully combines Feminine Magnetism/ Embodiment, DEEP HEART-HEALING towards Men + the Masculine and LEARNING REAL-LIFE SKILLS!
I have seen far too many women learn the mechanics of how to DATE well – but then not know how to RELATE (to men) well, which tragically keeps them on the conveyor belt of perpetual DATING, instead of moving into fulfilling and life-changing exclusive *RELATING* and sustainable long-term partnership and marriage.
THE ARENA does BOTH.
We will teach you how to DATE skillfully *and* how to RELATE ROMANTICALLY – and SUCCESSFULLY – with Masculine Men.
3. We are in this together!
You will be journeying the 3-months of THE ARENA with some of the most succulent, brilliant, tender-hearted, playful, hilarious, devotional, epic women in all the land. We will guide you through the places of resistance, avoidance, anxiousness, ‘blankness’, generational scar tissue, and fear that often lives in the hearts and nervous systems of many women. Part of the ineffable magic of THE ARENA is that we are going to do this in a way that is JOYFUL. There will be tears *and* (I pinky swear!) much laughter as we entrain to higher and higher codes of Feminine enchantment, suppleness, embodied wisdom and SKILLFULNESS together.
You do not have to do this alone!
Dating doesn't have to be a lonely and depressing journey!
Meet Your Teachers In THE ARENA
Gillian Pothier
Founder of Feminine Eros and Creator of The Arena.
Gillian is one of the Source Code holders of restoring LOVE and UNION harmonics on this planet by righting the relationship between the Masculine and the Feminine. She has been on the frontlines of the restoration of the Feminine AND the Masculine through her writing, coaching and livestream transmissions for many years. All of her work is in service to 3 sacred pillars of Creation upon this planet:
Love - Union - Family
From Gillian
As a guide for thousands of women, I have seen IT ALL in the extreme sport of Man:Woman Relating!
For over 10 years, I have supported women repairing their relationships with the men in her life, whether that be Husband, Father, Son/s, Brothers, Ex Husbands, Lovers, or Baby Daddies, as well as with the Masculine aspect of God – the entire Masculine enchilada.
I have watched women unnecessarily suffer in the world of dating + relating and I have created THE ARENA as a true REVIVAL of the lost art of Dating and Courtship.
I have been deeply blessed in this lifetime to be in life partnership with Max Marmer, who is my greatest Shamanic teacher of Love, Devotion and the Golden Path of Awakening. Celebrating 6 years of partnership in Love and Co-Creation, creating THE ARENA is one of the alchemical blessings of our Love!
Martine De Luna
Titel/Role Muse
Martine is a devoted wife and mother and is a treasured voice as a teacher and guide of the Devotional Feminine. As a celebrated teacher and trusted guide for hundreds of women, she guides women from maidenhood to marriage….and Motherhood! with her unique signature of profound wisdom, devotional heart and spicy spirit.
Martine will be weaving into THE ARENA to teach her golden codes of Biologic Womanhood in the Creational Dance of COURTSHIP and coming into ‘right relationship’ with God, Life, and Men. Martine will also be keeping an attuned eye on the ladies of THE ARENA as each of you step forward into ‘The World of Men’. Having Martine in “The House” is a long awaited dream come true for me. We are very blessed!
Allyssa Milan
Titel/Role Muse
Allyssa is a Multidimensional Artist, Devoted Daughter of God, and Cosmic Muse of the Most High!
A beloved and long-time student within the Feminine Eros ecosystem, Allyssa has transformed her whole life (for *real*) and is an embodied guiding light of joy, succulence, and Feminine bliss.
With nearly a decade of experience working with men around intimacy and sexuality, Allyssa has deep insights into the Masculine psyche that she offers as an embodied and tender-hearted guide for Women. Allysa believes (and is a walking example!) that when women awaken to their unique magic and Feminine creational potency, relationships become vessels for the miraculous!
Who is THE ARENA for?
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Women of all different seasons and developmental cycles of life!
We have maidens and ingenues in their 20’s, virgins in their 30’s, widowers, Mamas, former sex workers, women who have avoided relationships with men for years, divorcees, ladies of all different cultural and spiritual lineages….women of alllll backgrounds, ages and spiritual paths are welcome! -
You know deep, devotional love and union with a man is truly part of your destiny and while you may have a belly full of butterflies, the deeper part of you is READY.
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You are willing to take and honor a 12-week vow of NOT ONE COMPLAINT coming from your lips about MEN at all. NOT ONE, Ladies. AHEM.
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THE ARENA requires your active participation. You must agree to GO ON ACTUAL DATES WITH ACTUAL MEN. (This is the whole point!)
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Women who are ready to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the psychic scar tissue around Men + the Masculine that TRULY keeps you looping inside of painful dating drama or the despair and sadness of not being truly met or claimed by a GREAT Man, year after year.
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You are ready to learn how to TURN ON your LOVE-LIGHT – and develop MASTERY with this part of the NATURAL STATE OF THE FEMININE. Eros, Radiance, Allure, Succulence, Enchantment and Magnetism are your NATURAL FEMININE STATES of BEING when you feel safe and joyful.
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You are done making excuses, done making dinner for yet another “maybe he is The One”, and are ready to be RESPONSIBLE for your CREATIONAL POWER as WOMAN.
You don’t have to enter the scary world of “dating apps” and “online dating” alone.
(And, honestly, in our opinion, Feminine Women “shouldn’t” enter the Lion’s Den of dating – whether online or ‘in the wild’ – without being equipped with crucial SKILLS.)
We created THE ARENA to disrupt the dread, despair and resistance SO MANY women feel when they even think about dating, ‘being back on the apps’ or being approached by men ‘in the wild’.
Inside THE ARENA, you will become A FEELABLE WOMAN.
(Energetic Hint: Masculine Men Are Built To Find, Fall In Love With, And Cherish Feelable Women.)
Architecture Of The Journey
THE
AREAN
A Dating and Courtship Revival for Feminine Women
4 Month group journey
Includes
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10 LIVE TEACHING SESSIONS
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3 DEEP DIVE COMMUNITY COACHING CALLS
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Special extracurricular ‘pop-up’ salons
EARLY BIRD
$1777
$1555
$200 Off available until xxx
PAYMENT PLAN
3x xxx
3x xxx
$200 Off available until xxx
FAQ
Will the calls be recorded?
Yes, all calls will be recorded and the replays will be available within 2 business days.
When will the teachings be held?
The primary teachings will be held on Thursdays at differing times to accommodate multiple timezones.
There will also be special pop-up teachings and a Book Study group. We suggest prioritizing the Core Teachings and Coaching Calls – and attend the extra-curricular offerings as desired. (But they are AMAZING so you will desire!)
What types of support I will receive during THE ARENA?
Q+A following each week’s LIVE TEACHING: We will respond to limited questions after each weekly teaching transmission.
Dedicated Office Hours: There are also 3 hot-seat community coaching (“office hour”) calls dedicated to supporting you and responding to your personal questions!
Ongoing Community Support: We got you! THE ARENA includes a popping community where you may ask questions, share screenshots of your texting communication with men, and receive emotional or tactical support from each other and from one of the 3 facilitators of THE ARENA. (We know communication in dating moves quickly (that's actually a good thing!) so while we cannot promise real time support, we will do our best to jump in and provide timely responses!)
Do you offer Refunds?
No. We do not offer refunds for THE ARENA. This is a unique Live program ~ the 1st ever of its kind!
High Heels And A Fancy Handbag Won’t Keep You Warm At Night, Beauty.
Come join us in THE ARENA and get ready to create DEEP LASTING LOVE with a MASCULINE MAN in 2025!