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GILLIAN POTHIER


The Arena
The Doors to THE ARENA are officially OPEN! 🎉 After being asked (for years!) to create a special space just for our “ladies in waiting” who are ready to (re) enter the World of Men, I feel so much joy to announce the debut of.... THE ARENA: An All For Love Dating + Courtship Incubator ⚡💛⚡THE ARENA is a multidimensional, mystical yet practical dating + courtship incubator where you will be guided, supported and (lovingly!) worked as you step forward into the world of men. W
Gillian Pothier
Dec 14, 20244 min read


The Viking Wives Club
Calling in the Warrior-Kings in Love with a Woman (Married or in a committed long-term relationship) Gillian and I have created a really...
Gillian Pothier
Nov 6, 202416 min read


Everything I've been trying *not* to say about Dating Apps for (Feminine) Women
Women in my fields ask me about online dating all the time.... (Part 1) Dating apps are no place for Feminine women. I am very well...
Gillian Pothier
May 3, 20235 min read


Because of HIM
There is a way that I wish women who so fiercely decree that 'its not a man's job to heal a woman' understood that while this is 'true',...
Gillian Pothier
Nov 18, 20222 min read


Feminine Eros Is Terrible News for the Feminine Ego
Every time I enter a state of arrogance and righteousness with Max and communicate to him from that metallic mental plane and inflamed...
Gillian Pothier
Aug 28, 20212 min read
THE RECLAMATION OF FEMININE ALLURE (at the Essence of the Soul)
ALLURE al·lure 1. the quality of being powerfully and mysteriously attractive or fascinating. 2. powerfully attract or charm; tempt. Allure is the energetic capacity for women to captivate, magnetize, spellcast and wield influence REGARDLESS of their "extrinsic beauty". Its a deep energetic sourcing in IMPERSONAL "meta" Feminine Archetypal Power. The conundrum is that too many women (WAY_TOO_MANY_WOMEN) have banished their inherent, immortal Feminine allure in an unconscious
Gillian Pothier
Oct 22, 20183 min read
"WHAT IS MOST PERSONAL IS MOST UNIVERSAL."
When we understand our lived experience through the lens of myth and archetypal energy, the entire context for our reality (no matter how contracted it may be at present) effortlessly EXPANDS in meaning....and MAGIC
Gillian Pothier
Sep 30, 20181 min read
WOMAN ELECTRIC:
An Invitation to an Archetypal Pop-Up Experience in Los Angeles The collective seas are darkened with rage and grief. This is not the time to dim, hide or disappear your flame. Turn UP the moonlit voltage of your deepest, wildest Feminine expression. For most of us as women, we live inside societal constructs of self-expression. We have been programmed to stuff our too-much-ness into synthetic, panty-liner scented, aspartame-gilded cages. We become reflexively obedient, livin
Gillian Pothier
Sep 28, 20183 min read
THE DEATH OF THE MATADOR: AN INVITATION TO LIVE unHIDDEN
Many moons ago, my former therapist said to me that I was like a matador. I could use flashes of brilliance and "over-functioning" to distract and seduce someone's attention away from my banged-up heart, or the rising heat of my flustered not-knowingness, or a sudden feeling of aloneness so piercing that I felt like I was being swallowed alive. As I have grown in capacity and potency, so has my matador. With an intentional and taut whip of the red scarf of sensual language or
Gillian Pothier
Aug 20, 20184 min read
THE COSMIC FEMININE COCK
Shakti is the cosmic Feminine principle of energy - that which animates. Shiva is the cosmic Masculine principle of consciousness - that which beholds. Like our own DNA, they are symbolically intertwined; the Tantric double-helix of cosmic creation and union. The Feminine principle (including and beyond gender) in our culture has been deeply injured by historical reality: The Burning Times, slavery, and desperate familial immigration patterns that have left our womb resonance
Gillian Pothier
Jul 29, 20183 min read
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