CHANGING THE WORLD….
ONE GREAT LOVE STORY AT A TIME

A LIFE OF SUCCESS, BUT SOMETHING FEELS MISSING...

Good life. Great friends. Fun. Travel.

Your life is full of beautiful moments….a growing sense of purpose, courageous expression and lots of sweetness with your magical friends.

You have done (or are doing!) the deep inner work and have created a life you feel proud of…except that deep down, you can’t help but know that there is something missing that would bring a depth of fulfillment and JOY to your heart:

HIM.

Ouf.
(I know, I know…)

You certainly do not NEED a man, you repeatedly remind yourself.

(Especially now that you are creating the money, the career, the friends and even the freedom to do as you desire.) ITS OK YOU DESIRE A MAN VALIDATE THE RIGHTNESS OF THEIR DESIRE

But this heart of yours…won’t stop….longing.

Longing to be MET.
Longing to be held in the strong arms of an attuned, smart, funny, tender, unapologetically MASCULINE MAN.
Longing to feel the deep exhale of knowing you can lay your head on the pillow next to his….and finally be HOME.

You may even already understand that he is the key to unlocking your deepest Feminine essence. It is only through union with him that you are able to meet these aspects of your WOMAN and to come into deep *organic* and ecstatic RESPECT for HIM.
(I think I can hear your ego groaning straight through the screen!)

The whole “Independent Woman” rite of passage certainly had its place, but you, my Dear…. are ready for the deeper game of creating DEEP, LASTING, EROS-DRENCHED LOVE.

Once a woman comes into approval for this part of Feminine essence as WOMAN, something very powerful becomes unlocked within her:
Her DESIRE.

"FEMINITY DESIRE IS A MIGHTY CREATIONAL FORCE UPON THIS PLANET"

But why then….are there so many fabulous women like YOU who DESIRE to be in a relationship with a Great Man stuck in these cycles of disappointing and frustrating experiences with men, over and over again.

Sadly, this is what I see every day:
You are either stuck in the scarcity trap of “Where are all the “REAL MEN?” because
“Gilllllian, you do not understand, I have been on 11 dates in a row and they were all DUDS.”

OR…..

You are one of the seemingly luckier ones who actually know how to magnetize good men….but….no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to keep them interested in pursuing you…let alone claim you.

You have pulled up your big girl panties time and time again in this dating saga and have been so patient…..but the merry-go-round of HOPE and DISAPPOINTMENT in your relationships with men is draining and you are… tired.

Just the idea of ‘getting back on the apps’ or going back to square one feels unbearable…so you try even harder.

To take the pressure off him, when the bill comes, you smile and ‘gladly’ pay your half of special dinners or even trips together (that you may have even been the one to plan!)

And….somehow…even thee sex (your superpower, after all) and all the ways you pour your iconic Magic Healing Love into this man seem to feel a bit dusty, and he begins to grow distant.

His texts and his attention become more metallic feeling and become less frequent. He stops bringing you flowers and little gifts. It's not long now before he will fade away, leaving you feeling understandably confused and heartbroken.

Yet another dysfunctional Chutes and Ladders game of going from being seemingly adored to ghosted in a matter of weeks….again.

WHERE DID THINGS GO WRONG?

Why are there so many gorgeous, “conscious” women like YOU who are doing ‘all the things’ yet unable to “call in” a Great Man?

I am going to give it to you straight up ~ no chaser.

THERE ARE TWO REASONS:

YOU HAVE NOT BEEN TAUGHT HOW TO DATE AS A FEMININE WOMAN.

You are dating in ways that are OUT OF ALIGNMENT WITH YOUR BIOLOGICAL and SPIRITUAL NATURE AS WOMAN, causing you heartbreak, frustration, weariness, and feeling like there is something wrong with YOU.

YOU DO NOT TRULY UNDERSTAND and RESPECT THESE STRANGE, BAFFLING, HAIRY CREATURES CALLED M-M–M-MEN.

You are dating and attempting to create relationships with men sourced in some understandable but nonetheless destructive places of blankness, unconscious disrespect, and ‘blind spots’.

This is causing you to make a series of (fixable!) critical mistakes over and over again that are causing you to overgive, unconsciously caretake, and be far too generous with your SEX and your MONEY.
(ie: You may be behaving in ways that LOOK GOOD from the outside looking in but are actually profoundly disrespectful of Masculine nature – and legit injurious to your own heart!)